A medium acts as a communication intermediary between a client sitter and his or her loved ones on other side.

Readings are surprising.  You may expect to hear from a certain person, but we cannot predict the identities of the spirits who show up to speak to you.  It may be a deceased parent, grandparent, spouse, child, co-worker, former neighbor, or love interest.  If you wish to hear from a specific person, invite them to come through ahead of time, then during our reading tell me their first name, and I will try to connect to them.

Intent's important: my intent as a medium and your intent as a sitter, so please approach your reading with positivity.  Good vibes make for good readings.

Mediumship is detective work along with a game of charades.   Who do we have?  What are they trying to say?  Sometimes spirits give me words and other times they send pictures or thoughts.  While I can describe a spirit's character, appearance, and generational relationship to you, unless a spirit makes clear who they are, I may ask you to validate who we have through bits of evidence that I bring through.  One time a spirit sent me a clip from the scene of the stripper's dressing room from the film "Gypsy," complete with sound.   My sitter was a fairly conservative woman with a PhD in education so I hesitated to pass along what I was seeing; but as fate would have it, when I did my client immediately came back with,  "Oh, that would be my mother."   

I constantly look for validation to determine whether or not you recognize who I'm bringing through or understand what I am passing along by asking you questions like, "Can you take that?", "Does that make sense to you?" or "Can you understand?"  Simple responses work best such as, "Yes, I can take that,"  "Yes, I understand," or conversely "I'm not sure."

Let the conversation flow.  Spirits tend to talk about their former life in general and with you, your present circumstances, and what went right and what went wrong when they were here.  They may explain, send memories, voice opinions, or offer advice about things that are going on with you, but spirits aren't soothsayers.  They rarely predict the future.  While we want spirits to have their say, please don't hesitate to ask me questions -- even if you feel that you have to interrupt me.  I don't mind.  If the spirit's going on and on, I may too.  The spirit will hear your question and probably answer it right away.