The basic function of a medium is to act as a communication intermediary between your loved ones on other side and you. 

Readings are surprising.  You may expect to hear from a certain person, but we can never predict which spirits show up to speak to you.  It may be a deceased parent, grandparent, spouse, child, co-worker, former neighbor, or love interest.  If you wish to hear from a specific person invite them to come through ahead of time, then during our reading tell me their first name, and I will try to connect to them.

Intent is vitally important: my intent as a medium and your intent as a sitter, so please approach your reading with positivity.  Good vibes make for good readings.

Mediumship is detective work combined with a game of charades.   Who do we have?  What are they trying to say?  Sometimes they speak in words, other times they send pictures.  While I can describe a spirit's character, appearance, and generational relationship to you, unless a spirit explicitly tells me or makes clear who they are, you may need to validate who we have.  "Oh, that's my mother."   Let the conversation flow.  Spirits tend to talk about their former life, your present circumstances, your relationship together, and what went right and what went wrong when they were here.  They might explain, give opinions, and offer advice about things that are going on with you, but they're not soothsayers.  They rarely predict the future, although while talking about her high school aged children living with her ex-husband one spirit said, "they'll be gone the first minute they can."  While we want the spirits to have their say please don't hesitate to ask questions, even if you have to interrupt me.  I don't mind.  The spirit will hear your question and should probably answer it right away.

I'll constantly look for validation to determine whether or not you recognize who I'm bringing through or understand what I am passing along by asking, "Can you take that?", "Does that make sense to you?" or "Can you understand?"  Simple responses work best such as, "Yes, I can take that,"  "Yes, I understand," or "I'm not sure about that."

Finally, please avoid drinking alcohol or imbibing anything that interferes with your consciousness before our reading.